What “Normal Eating” Really Means (and Why It’s Not What You Think)

If you’ve ever wondered what “normal eating” even means anymore, you’re not alone. Between constant food rules, wellness trends, and the pressure to eat perfectly, it’s easy to forget what it feels like to simply eat.

The truth is, “normal eating” isn’t about tracking, controlling, or always making the “right” choice. It’s about learning to listen to your body’s cues — hunger, fullness, satisfaction — and trusting that your body knows how to take care of you.

That might look like:
🥣 Eating when you’re hungry, even if it’s not mealtime.
🍕 Enjoying the pizza and the salad without guilt.
☕ Having coffee with a friend just because it feels good to connect.
🍫 Reaching for a snack without needing to justify it.

For many of my clients, “normal eating” is something they’ve never experienced — or it feels scary to imagine. Healing your relationship with food starts with letting go of the idea of being perfect and instead practicing permission.

You don’t have to earn your meals. You don’t have to prove your hunger. You don’t have to get it “right.”

Your body already knows what to do — therapy can help you start listening again.

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